It is what it is, we are here to stay.

  

In the year 2024, I find myself reflecting on the enduring misconception held by many people who identify as heterosexual that homosexuality is nothing more than a sexual desire.

It pains me to see how some have convinced themselves that those who are homosexual are incapable of anything beyond their orientation.

Despite knowing that homosexuality has existed long before the time of Jesus, there are still those who view it as a mere choice that can be switched on or off at will. It is important to remember that homosexuality is not a new phenomenon nor is it something that can be eradicated or changed at will. 

Throughout my own journey, I have witnessed the struggles faced by individuals who identify as homosexual, including the need to hide their true self and endure the hatred and discrimination of society. It breaks my heart to think of the centuries of denial and secrecy that have been forced upon those who simply wanted to be true to themselves. 

Homosexuality did not start with me, and I know it will continue long after I am gone.

The existence of diverse sexual orientations is a natural part of human diversity and should be celebrated rather than condemned. it is imperative to acknowledge the richness and diversity of human experiences.

Homosexuality encompasses far more than a mere sexual desire; it encompasses love, companionship, and the fundamental right to live authentically.

Embracing and respecting the spectrum of human sexuality is essential in fostering a society where all individuals, regardless of sexual orientation, can thrive and be celebrated for their uniqueness.

In The Silence of Night.

 

In the stillness of midnight's embrace,

Under moonlit skies, miles apart.

Missing you, my love, beyond measure,

Longing for us to be together.

Each moment lingers, time stands still,

yearning, Hoping for love so true.

In the quiet of night, I silently plea,

Hoping you feel the same for me.

Little Habits.

 

At some point in my life I have faced and struggled with serious addictions, some I have successfully overcome, all the while with other addictions I still face the struggle.

As I write this, I will be preaching to myself as well, life is a journey we learn as we move.

Many addictions start off as a harmless boost of dopamine just a little habit that will help
for a temporary satisfaction, giving a false sense of overcoming fears and you convince yourself you are in control of the situation.

Drug addictions cause changes to the circuitry of the brain in ways that make it difficult to regulate through deliberative efforts the allure of a chemical rush of reward.

It is easy for addictions to become complex and destructive just as it is easy to fall into its trap,
and it as a slippery ground trying to get out.

It can be unbeknown to the individual struggling with an addiction the impact on those around them but It has to take the individual to recognise and accept that the kind of addiction as a problem, and a self willingness to seek help and realising the effects for a better and brighter outcome.

It feels like I am writing a guide booklet on how to deal with addictions, I guess its only because I have experienced certain addictions in my life that almost got me to see the entrance of the gates to the core of the earth, but I survived that and made it through.

On the other hand, there is that debate, Is addiction a disease or moral failing.

One thing we can agree upon is that it is not a choice to get addicted. 

The effects of addiction can be felt in every aspect of ones life - physical and mental health, relationships, work, even just overall well-being.

The success of getting though an addiction, is having a strong support system of friends, family, and professionals that can provide the necessary guidance and encouragement to help overcome.

The emotional toll on family and friends can be deep, leading to feelings of frustration, helplessness, whether it be substance abuse, gambling, food, or any other form of addiction, the consequences are felt not only by the individual.

Addictions, left unchecked can cause unimaginable destructions and unnecessary loss of life. 

Another problem with addiction, especially with extreme substance abuse can cause feelings of isolation, and cause suffering and difficulties including deteriorating physical health issues.
Lack of motivation eating away at all positive ideas and strength.

Showing compassion, understanding, and patience can go a long way in supporting addicts through their journey to recovery. Help them to seek professional help, such as therapy, support groups, or rehabilitation programs, is crucial in breaking free from the cycle of addiction.

On the other hand, anyone struggling with addiction should know that there is always hope for change and healing. It's true that the first step towards recovery is recognizing and accepting that you have a problem and seeking help. 

It is also essential to develop healthy coping mechanisms and self-care routines to replace the harmful behaviours associated with addiction. Engaging in activities that bring joy, prioritizing your physical and mental well-being are all steps towards a fulfilling, addiction-free life.

If you are trying to overcome addiction remember it is a challenging and ongoing process, but with determination, perseverance, and the right support, it is possible to break free from its grip and rebuild a healthy, happy life.
Remember, you are not alone in this journey, and there are people who care about you and are willing to help you every step of the way. There is always someone close to you who is ready to hold your hand through it all.

Take back your control, take that first step today towards a brighter you.

Talk to someone you feel comfortable with. 

We are only human.

Over this past weekend I read on one of the social media platforms about a man who died by suicide and he did it on a live broadcast. Now, there has been a frenzy on the social media with different views been expressed, some showing sympathy while others expressing their opposite feelings.

Understanding the intricate differences among individuals is a fascinating yet complex journey that unveils the diverse tapestry of who are as humans.

People come from various backgrounds, possess unique experiences, and harbour distinct preferences that shape their personalities and choices.
Our divergent upbringings, cultural influences, and genetic predispositions all play crucial roles in shaping our beliefs, values, and decisions.
It is through this mosaic of differences that we gain insight into the rich complexity of human nature and behaviour.

As we navigate the labyrinth of human relationships, we often encounter situations where those closest to us - the ones we love the most - have the power to cause us the deepest hurt.

This paradoxical phenomenon stems from the heightened emotional investment we place in these relationships, making us more vulnerable to both profound joy and profound pain.
The expectations we hold for our loved ones, coupled with our deep emotional bonds, create fertile ground for disappointment and hurt when these expectations are not met.

The inherent differences in personalities, communication styles, and coping mechanisms between individuals can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts, even among those who share a deep connection.

Our loved ones, who know us best and have seen us at our most vulnerable, have an intimate understanding of our strengths and weaknesses.
Unfortunately, this closeness can sometimes be a double-edged sword, as it can make us more susceptible to emotional wounds inflicted by those we hold dear.

While the exploration of human diversity and the nuances of personal choices can be enlightening and enriching, it is essential to approach our relationships with empathy, understanding, and open communication.

By recognizing and respecting the differences that make each individual unique, we can foster deeper connections built on mutual respect and appreciation. Ultimately, the journey to understanding the complexities of human nature and the choices we make is a transformative one that requires patience, compassion, and a willingness to embrace both the beauty and challenges of our shared human experience.