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It is what it is, we are here to stay.

   In the year 2024, I find myself reflecting on the enduring misconception held by many people who identify as heterosexual that homosexuality is nothing more than a sexual desire. It pains me to see how some have convinced themselves that those who are homosexual are incapable of anything beyond their orientation. Despite knowing that homosexuality has existed long before the time of Jesus, there are still those who view it as a mere choice that can be switched on or off at will. It is important to remember that homosexuality is not a new phenomenon nor is it something that can be eradicated or changed at will.  Throughout my own journey, I have witnessed the struggles faced by individuals who identify as homosexual, including the need to hide their true self and endure the hatred and discrimination of society. It breaks my heart to think of the centuries of denial and secrecy that have been forced upon those who simply wanted to be true to themselves.  Homosexuality did not start wi

In The Silence of Night.

  In the stillness of midnight's embrace, Under moonlit skies, miles apart. Missing you, my love, beyond measure, Longing for us to be together. Each moment lingers, time stands still, yearning, Hoping for love so true. In the quiet of night, I silently plea, Hoping you feel the same for me.

Little Habits.

  At some point in my life I have faced and struggled with serious addictions, some I have successfully overcome, all the while with other addictions I still face the struggle. As I write this, I will be preaching to myself as well, life is a journey we learn as we move. Many addictions start off as a harmless boost of dopamine just a little habit that will help for a temporary satisfaction, giving a false sense of overcoming fears and you convince yourself you are in control of the situation. Drug addictions cause changes to the circuitry of the brain in ways that make it difficult to regulate through deliberative efforts the allure of a chemical rush of reward. It is easy for addictions to become complex and destructive just as it is easy to fall into its trap, and it as a slippery ground trying to get out. It can be unbeknown to the individual struggling with an addiction the impact on those around them but It has to take the individual to recognise and accept that the kind of addic

We are only human.

Over this past weekend I read on one of the social media platforms about a man who died by suicide and he did it on a live broadcast. Now, there has been a frenzy on the social media with different views been expressed, some showing sympathy while others expressing their opposite feelings. Understanding the intricate differences among individuals is a fascinating yet complex journey that unveils the diverse tapestry of who are as humans. People come from various backgrounds, possess unique experiences, and harbour distinct preferences that shape their personalities and choices. Our divergent upbringings, cultural influences, and genetic predispositions all play crucial roles in shaping our beliefs, values, and decisions. It is through this mosaic of differences that we gain insight into the rich complexity of human nature and behaviour. As we navigate the labyrinth of human relationships, we often encounter situations where those closest to us - the ones we love the most - have the pow